embellish or exaggerate?

Exaggerate makes things bigger than they were. Embellish adds things that were not there.

When a child tells a tall tale about their weekend, they might be exaggerating or embellishing, and the two are easy to confuse.

To exaggerate is to make something sound bigger, better or worse than it really was. A small wave at the seaside becomes 'a wave as tall as a house'. Nothing new has been added; the real thing has just been stretched.

To embellish is to add extra details or decoration. Embellish can be completely innocent: you can embellish a birthday card with glitter and ribbon. In a story, embellishing means adding bits, like saying a seal waved at you from the rocks when there was no seal at all. Exaggerate stretches; embellish decorates.

Both words, side by side

embellish

To add extra details or decoration to make something fancier.

  • Rosa embellished her plain notebook with stickers, ribbons and glitter stars.
  • The baker likes to embellish each birthday cake with swirls of icing and tiny sugar stars.

Similar: decorate, adorn, beautify

exaggerate

To make something sound bigger, better or worse than it really is.

  • Jack likes to exaggerate, so his small fish became a giant shark in the story.
  • Don't exaggerate: the queue took ten minutes, not three hours!

Similar: overstate, inflate, overdo

Why it costs marks

Closest-meaning questions may offer 'decorate' and 'overstate' as options. A child who only thinks of embellish as 'making a story bigger' can miss that its first meaning is to decorate, which is often exactly what the question is checking.

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