nag or scold?

Nag is about repeating. Scold is about something that has already gone wrong.

Children often use nag and scold for any kind of telling-off. The difference is in how often, and when.

To nag is to keep asking or complaining, over and over. 'Have you packed your PE kit? Have you packed your PE kit?' is nagging. It is usually about something that has not been done yet, and the annoying part is the repetition.

To scold is to tell someone off, crossly, for something they have already done wrong. When the dog steals a sausage from the barbecue and Dad says sharply, 'Bad dog!', that is a scolding. It can happen once and be over. A good test: nagging needs a stopwatch, scolding needs a crime.

Both words, side by side

nag

To keep annoying someone by asking or complaining again and again.

  • 'Tidy your room, tidy your room,' his sister would nag all day until he finally gave in.
  • 'Oil that squeaky gate,' Grandpa would nag on every visit until Dad finally fixed it.

Similar: pester, bother, moan

scold

To tell someone off angrily for doing something wrong.

  • Gran scolded the puppy for chewing her favourite slippers yet again.
  • Please don't scold the little ones crossly for the mess; they were only trying to bake you a cake.

Similar: reprimand, rebuke

Why it costs marks

In a cloze or closest-meaning question, the clue is often in the rest of the sentence. Words like 'kept', 'again' or 'all week' point to nag; a single wrong deed that has just happened points to scold.

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Sitting the 11+ in Kent, Medway or Buckinghamshire?

Plain-English guides to each test, from the councils’ own pages: Kent Test · Medway Test · Bucks Secondary Transfer Test

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